QUOTE (The Last Bear @ Mar 15 2008, 02:03 AM)

Thanks, I do me best!
Yes.
I was told totally spontaneously y'day by a female colleague 16 yrs my junior what a really nice guy i am and asked if I am married, but such interest in me is rare, made a refreshing change to not be treated as the chopped liver, though.

If she says you are a nice guy, she's not attracted to you.
Listen up:
Women are not attracted to bad boys, they are excited by them.
They mistake this "state" for attraction, and the ups and downs of the relationship (fractionation) addicts them.
They get rid of nice guys because they are boring. Shake things up , have clear boundaries, break your patterns, make her work a bit for you,lay on some real romance occasionally (run her a bath, candles, cook dinner, candles music, then dance kissing and withdrawing to change the music or make coffee(fractionating her desire for you again) then deliver the goods -ALWAYS.)
When making love, act like a porn star. Show leadership, most women WANT to be lead.Gradually, but progressively, get dirtier until you reach her limit.Then she is learning about herself.
LEARN HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN
There are many highly intelligent men on this forum, who could bore the pants off women Their brains function differently to men. Learn to talk about what women want. Fire up their emotions, so they feel alive. "Bait the hook with what the fish likes to eat."
Attraction and seduction are skill sets. They can be learnt (try Ross Jeffries). Then you can choose the women you want in your life-and they will simply love being with you.